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Personal
Stories: Sheree’s Story
One Woman’s Life with Chronic Hepatitis B Brings
Hope to Others
At first glance Sheree’s life appears plagued by illness
and the loss of a much-loved hospital nursing career. Despite the
challenges imposed by living with chronic hepatitis B, however,
Sheree has endured and reinvented herself with the help of technology
and a love of helping others.
Sheree lives in the rolling green hills of southern Ohio as generations
of her family before her. She has penetrating green eyes and speaks
with a gentle Appalachian accent. Neither she nor her family members
fit the profile of someone who might be at risk for hepatitis B.
In 1981, at age 26, Sheree began experiencing nausea, fatigue
and abdominal pain. “I kept wondering why I was so darned
tired. Was it because I had been working at least two to three double
shifts a week and had a young child? I was young, I shouldn't have
been so tired,” she recalled.
Soon she could tolerate only burnt toast, oatmeal, and water.
“I diagnosed myself as having gall bladder problems and went
to a surgeon to have it removed,” she said.
“I was surprised to wake up in the hospital’s isolation
ward, which meant no one could come in without protective gowns
and gloves. I thought, what is going on? Surgery patients aren’t
isolated.” The doctor told her she had “some kind of
hepatitis.”
Further tests revealed that not only did she have chronic hepatitis
B, but she was also suffering liver damage from the virus. “I
remember thinking, ‘Oh my God, what now? How did I get it?
What about my son and husband?” Fortunately, test results
showed that neither her son nor husband was infected.
Sheree had worked as a nurse and assumed she had become infected
through exposure to infectious blood or body fluids from a jaundiced
patient she had cared for. She eventually returned to work, but
in the months that followed, suffered relapses and frequent hospitalizations
due to fatigue and abdominal pain related to hepatitis B.
At age 26, Sheree found she couldn’t sustain the workload
of caring for both patients and family.
She became pregnant with twins
four years after her diagnosis and her obstetrician recommended
an abortion because of her hepatitis B infection. “I just
couldn’t believe his advice,” she recalled.
Sheree’s nursing experience and outrage/disbelief/anger kicked
in and she set out to find an infectious disease doctor who could
answer her questions about the risk her hepatitis B posed to her
unborn children.
“Thank God I found a specialist who reassured both my doctor
and me that the twins could vaccinated at birth so they would be
protected from the hepatitis B virus,” she recalled. “I
found an excellent pediatrician who prepared everything in advance.
When my C-section was scheduled, the hepatitis B vaccine was ready
and my boys were immunized immediately to prevent infection.”
As years passed, Sheree continued to suffer disabling fatigue
and relapses from her hepatitis B. As a result, she kept trying
to learn more about hepatitis B. In 1997, she met Steve Bingham
and John Kirk through an email list designed for patients with hepatitis
B or C. “I probably stood out because I kept asking questions
about hepatitis B that no one could answer,” she recalled.
In 1998, Sheree became a co-host of a new email list - the Hepatitis
B Information and Support List (www.HB-List)
– which remains the only online support group for people living
with chronic hepatitis B.
She also created a comprehensive online “Hepatitis
B Research Archive” of medical and general news articles
on hepatitis B.
“I guess it’s the nurse that’s still in me. I
love helping others and doing research. Answering people online
and posting the latest medical information on my research website
is one way I can help them,” Sheree said.
In 1999, Sheree’s family suffered another enormous blow.
Her younger brother was diagnosed with hepatitis B just a few weeks
before he died suddenly and tragically of liver cancer.
After his death, everyone in the family was tested. It turned out
that several of Sheree’s immediate and extended family members
were also found to be chronically infected with hepatitis B.
Her experience as the HB-List’s “Mom” was extremely
useful as Sheree helped guide her family through the complexities
of understanding hepatitis B, the tests, the management issues and
treatment options.
Sheree’s active involvement with the online HB-List and Research
Archive revitalized her nursing skills and utilizes her compassionate
and personal understanding of the issues faced by people living
with hepatitis B. Her email messages, signed “Hugs, Sheree,”
confer a kind reassurance to everyone. You can almost hear her maternal
“clucking” as she reassures list members that their
hopes and dreams can remain intact, despite their chronic infection.
While Sheree has ultimately achieved a non-traditional nursing
career that utilizes her medical expertise and research talents,
her chronic hepatitis B infection continues to cause liver damage
(she has mild cirrhosis) and an unusual amount of pain, which are
constant.
“There are days when I think, ‘why do I have to go
through this?’” she admitted. “But most of the
time, I try not to dwell on it. These are the cards that I’ve
been dealt and I have to play my best hand with them.”
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